Saturday, May 29, 2010

The Neighborhood / Ch. 3 / Pt. 3 / To Fly Free

Paula

Each passing day, it seemed, my timidity grew and bore into my nascent perceptions. Preferring the company of insects, to that of people, I was blissfully happy when left alone, to be with my collections. Caterpillars . . . the black woolies, and the striped ones, with black spikes, were my favorite by far. I collected lady bugs, and grasshoppers, too. But, mainly I loved my caterpillars and built elaborate castles for them, out of cardboard boxes of any kind that happened my way. Each room had a label, such as, “Living Room” or “Dining Room,” which my dad would neatly print out for me. All of my insects received fresh food daily, each sort eating differently. Caterpillars are voracious, so, it was a never ending task keeping them fed and I would go as far as two blocks for the woolies’ bush. There’s got to be more caterpillars on the next block, I’d think. But I was not allowed to go further, by myself. I had dozens crawling about at any given time, and others, in cocoons or coming out of metamorphosis. When the cocoons were opened by an emerging moth or butterfly, I would tease it tenderly onto my index finger and then wave my hand about, until the wings dried. Once dry, the wings would powder up and spread. Then, I knew another friend would soon leave me . . . and fly off to its’ destiny. Each time, a winged beauty took off, I would watch, mesmerized. I’d keep staring off to the point of disappearance and then, I’d just sit for a long while, in the hot sun. Thinking about it and wondering where a butterfly goes, after it dies.

My Grandfather Peter, perhaps the most frigid man I have ever known, owned the homes next door, one of which my father grew up in and the other, behind. He lived in “the other, behind.” Upon his orders to my parents, we children rotated the task of keeping him company during his noonday meal. It was not an everyday event, maybe once, every two weeks. Each of my siblings still suffer that sitting time. At attention, on the sofa across from granddad, I would sit, while he ate his boiled vegetables. His whole house stunk of them. Grinding his food into a fine mush, before he swallowed, he would, all the while stare out the window as if I weren’t even there. It made me a little sick to my stomach.

If I were lucky enough, to have been given notice the night before, that, I was to visit him, I’d conjure up no less than three tales in my mind. I figured if I kept talking it would keep me from fainting dead away from the austere silence. But, if I were given a moments notice, then I had to come up with something fast. Each time I wore myself into a fine lather, straining to carry on an animated dialogue. Pleasing the man, was very hard work. Now and then, he'd turn to me with utter disdain and say, "You'll never become a lady with those faces that you make."

I truly think we were summoned just so he could mentally torture us. In all fairness, I did learn a few things from Granddad. When he slammed the door in my face and that of my sisters', I learned the art of indifference. While sitting on his sofa, I learned to feel shame.

With the exception of Aunt June, my father’s family held us apart. They regarded my father with disappointment, and we, his offspring, though innocent of any crime, were going to feel the sting. Never-the-less, Dad was still a Goetten and it was necessary to keep up respectable standards. A facade was set up for all outside observations. Things were nice when it was necessary, but there was always, an undercurrent. A shun. Somehow, and in someway, this cruel treatment must have brought a sense of contentment to my father’s family. However, and worse, on the surface, we appeared to be quite wealthy and I, from a sheer sense of pride, learned quickly how to uphold the charade. But, it was extremely damaging to me and my siblings.

In my refusal to acknowledge the vindictiveness, I gave prove to its’ very existence. Holding my head high, and my shoulders squared, I learned to pronounce my words with a deliberation and also, I learned to distrust everything and everyone.


wolfwitch
Wolf Witch

Wow, it's getting more & more powerful.

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Jennie

You are amazing,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,
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BettyLuvs2rock

XLNT as usual!
Did you study writing in college?
You have a way with words my dear!
XO, Betty

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Paula
Paula Servetti

Gosh and Golly! I thank you all for your comments. It really feels grand to see that you relate, to what I've written. No I never studied writing in college. Any writing instructions that might have had an effect on me, came from eight years at Our Mother of Good Counsel Grammar School. Other than that I've been scribbling down things most of my life.

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The Guard

This is exceptional writing, and filled with insight and sadness. Bravo my beauty, bravo!
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Paula
Paula Servetti

Thank-you Guard. Yessssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss!

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Paula
Paula Servetti

(The Guard doesn't give out compliments easily, so I'm thrilled.)

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Paula
Paula Servetti

Childhood . . . makes one, wonder. You had very extreme and traumatizing things happen to you. Much more than what I have written here. But, it all leaves marks and as you say, "I still have the scars."

Posted by Paula on Wednesday, November 18, 2009 - 9:26 PM
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scott
Kenneth s cornwall

I just commented on the blog after this one...wrote something about my friend Kevin, who was brought up catholic. He declared war on the ants, and collected Martian Cards. My father had a brother who worked for Grumman on the lunar module, LEM, and he walked out of our living room one night when dad started badmouthing Nixon. He also gave my sister "driving lessons" and tried to grab her tit during one of them. Not to be confused with dad's other brother, John, who was a little like a benign mad scientist...I wish now, looking back, that my sister had told my parents of what happened. She only told me. It would have changed everything, real quick. I love to watch kids explore nature and see thier sense of wonder as they do!
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Paula
Paula Servetti

Crazy stuff Scott, Thank-you for sharing!

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The Neighborhood / Ch. 3 / Pt.2 / Uncle Louie

Paula


Our landlord, my Uncle Louie had his own comfortable abode in our backyard, surrounded by, luscious peach trees, an overbearing fig, two guavas and dominating the back yard, was a massive Hass avocado tree. The grand avocado set him,mercifully, apart from us children, leaving both sides in a modicum of peace. Him, with his German marching songs and us, with our little homes made from Adirondack chairs and army blankets. Uncle Louie, was a confirmed bachelor, due to one major love affair that had ended abruptly. The whole sordid tale was never made clear. Uncle Louie also had an aversion for children. He lived only for his beloved dachshunds, Topsy and Hermeinchen . . . the latter being his particular favorite and the one my mother happened to kill.

It was quite accidental of course, but the worse crime she could have ever committed. She was merely taking us children to the Townhouse, near the Lafayette Park on Wilshire Boulevard, for our weekly swimming lessons. While backing out of the driveway in her white "53 Chevi, she managed to roll over sweet plump Hermeinchen, who was sleeping under the back wheel of the car. My mother screamed with horror. Thankfully, my Uncle Louie wasn't home at the time. Panicked and pale, my mother somehow gathered up the dog and just plopped her in the back seat with Loni and me. We were terrified. It was horrendous watching our beloved little sausage, bleeding to death before our very eyes. She looked at us with her soft brown eyes full of pain, questioning . . . wondering why we couldn’t help her. We'd look at her sobbing and screaming uncontrollably as the little dog bled to death before our very eyes. Dear, dear, sweet, Hermeinchen! She was a patient adoring soul, that put up with us and being dressed in baby clothes and bundled up into our doll carriage for daily walks around the neighborhood. Traumatized, unable to comprehend, I felt lost, for I had yet to encounter death, save those of my pet insects.

It was a horrible affair, compounded by the ravings of my hysterical mother through the eternal drive to the vet. "He's going to kill me! What in the hell am I going to do? We'll be thrown out into the streets! Oh, my fucking life!" she wailed.

My uncle, upon hearing the dreadful news, was surprisingly understanding of the incident. This, of course, was just a smokescreen . . . for Uncle Louie was determined that my mother would pay for her heinous deed, every single day of her renting life. Until she passed in April, 2009, at ninety-three years of age, she still shuddered at the memory. "Poor damn animal, and your fucking uncle!"

No doubt, the incident gave my uncle leverage. In the years to follow, if any incident pissed him off, no matter how trivial ~ he would take his "For Sale" sign out of the garage and hammer it into our front lawn for everyone to see. This act created a domino effect that would ripple through our household. My mother would take immediately to the couch with an attack of ulcers. "That son of a bitch!" she'd moan. There, she would stay for days, groaning, and swigging back, bottles of chalky Maalox. This in turn prompted my father to drink, even more; staying longer at his favorite haunts, he'd drink and brag himself into oblivion. This, in turn, caused massive fights that caused us children to cry. Feeling petrified and out of control, we'd huddle together in bed, praying for the fighting to stop. And so, it went.



scott
Kenneth s cornwall

my first encounter with real death was a dead bird I found in a graveyard where I rode my bike as a kid, and then my sister's pet parakeet. I'm the one who found it dead. I hate it when that happens. I remember calling my parents, who were at a nieghbors house, crying..."Tweety died!" I don't know if that's politically correct or not, guys are supposed to be tough, I know...strange thing is, I found both dead birds within weeks of each other. First, the one in the graveyard...then my sister's parakeet.
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Paula
Paula Servetti

Losing any animal that one loves is the big hurt. . . and even a bird in a graveyard. There is no getting around it. They are our little friends. Thanks for your comment Scott.

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wolfwitch
Wolf Witch

Ugh, what a terrible experience!

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Paula
Paula Servetti

I'm sure there isn't a person alive that didn't have a similar experience when they were a child in some way concerning a pet.
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BOBBY JAMESON/RPJ

You write so well.......very vivid..........
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Paula
Paula Servetti

Thank you, dear friend. The finest of compliments, as, you are, to me one of the finest writers of today. Bright, edgy, and essential and brave.

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Paula
Paula Servetti

I like calling you "Dear friend" as it is so proper....
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The Neighborhood / Ch.3 / Pt.1/ Little Tara


Paula


1927 Rodney Drive, was the address of our new home in the Los Feliz area. Located in the middle of the adjacent streets: Vermont, Hillhurst, Finley and Franklin Aves., it was just a stone's throw from the heart of Hollywood. The large white colonial reminded many of it’s admirers of a smaller "Tara" in the 1939 movie, “Gone With The Wind.” One could just imagine an anxious Scarlet O'Hara edging her petticoats through the front door, in a defiant search of her beloved Ashley.

Enormous fir trees stood to the right of the house, with an expansive stretch of lawn that rolled smooth to a wide quiet street. The California palms that lined the curbs of Rodney Dr., were wide and thick on our side of the street, and on the other, they were tall and skinny. Our front porch secured by six columns ran the entire length of the house. Under its veranda, our friends and neighbors gathered to share their stories and troubles. Shaded from the piercing California sun, the porch proved a calming respite. The soft, Jasmine scented, evenings lingered with an air of calmness, despite the turbulence within.

When we first moved in, I ran through every room of the large house. I could not believe all the hiding places. Once inside the large front door, a spacious living room stood to the right. To the left were lovely French doors that opened to a formal dining room, with walls that were papered with and to my horror, huge cabbage-like roses.

“Do I have to sleep in that room?” I asked.

“No, don’t be silly, that is the dining room.” answered my mother. “Isn’t it beautiful? And, I intend on keeping these French doors closed, so we will, at least have one fine room. It will be used only for holidays.”

“Fine, by me.” I thought to myself. My eyes landed on the wooden stairway, straight ahead. The steps were wide, and had a banister of mahogany. Wow! Those’ll be fun to slide on.

“One of the first things that I’m going to do is carpet the whole downstairs and the stairway.” My mother, assessed. “The kids will just have to learn to use these back stairs to the kitchen.”

Hummmm. Things weren’t looking so good. There was a pass way to the right of the main staircase, which led to a small telephone room and a wood-paneled den, that was lined on all walls with shelves and bookcases, save for a massive stone fireplace. Our kitchen was in the shape of a T, and had five doors, one, lead to the dining room, one, to the green breakfast room, where we were to eat every meal and do our homework, also, one at the foot of the back stairs; another, that lead to the rest of the house and last but not least, by any means, was the back door that led to the screened in, back porch; which accommodated the refrigerator and washing machine.

One of my jobs at night, after the dishes were done, was to make the school lunches. This meant going out to the porch for fruits and cold cuts. Screens did not provide much protection from monsters or murderers. I had to gather up my courage and quickly grab the lunch makings and dash back for the kitchen, slamming and locking the door behind me. It really got to be a drag to go through this every night. When it was time to return the food, I'd turn off all the lights, peer out the window of the back door, quietly unlock it and hurl the food back into the fridge. As I’d run back in for safety, I'd hear a deep menacing voice, laughing from the darkness, "Heh, heh, next time. Next, time." In my own defense, I was not the only child with imaginings, about that porch. We all were afraid from time to time, even, my mother.

Upstairs, were four bedrooms and a large screened-in summer room. One of the bedrooms connected to the other by a bathroom, just like at my Grandmothers house.

“This will be perfect for when Grandma spends the night.” said Mom.

“When Grandma comes to sleep over . . . will Mr. Garcia come with her?” I asked.

“No, Mr. Garcia will stay at his own home.” Dad laughed, as he mussed my hair. “This is so new to you kids, but you’ll get used to it.”

And, we did. I was to live in this house for the next fourteen years, and then some. Unfortunately, this beloved landmark of my childhood was sold by my Uncle to aggressive New York developers and demolished in 1971. Now, in its' place, stands a horrendous sparkling apartment complex, with a large banner that reads, "Villa Rodney . . . Now Renting!” The thick palm trees still stand, singed with a circle of black from a furious block fire that happened when I was seven. Those people who remember, look at the growth, measure the years and fondly reminisce about the old days and the homestead that was used as the breeding place for the pods in the horror classic, “The Invasion Of The Body Snatchers.”


A Hollywood Start / Ch. 2. / Pt.6 / Mr. Garcia


Paula



My Grandmother's border, Mr. Garcia, always participated in the family meals. He was a frail, nervous man with skin as drawn as the dead; his veins jutting blue like directions on a road map and his thinning black hair he kept, greased back, slick. On his cheeks were pusy pimples and sitting on his upper lip was a huge bulbous wart. Though he was kind enough, I found him unfortunately repugnant and prayed never to sit next to him at the dinner table. His large rented room in the back of the house contained an elaborate alter, run over with religious icons of every sort and size imaginable; some larger than I. The abundance of the room’s burgundy velvet and white lace were worn and unclean. The entire room simply, stank . . . vile, really. Putrid. Vapors of camphor, used to cover busy bacteria; for his pustules were ostensibly popped on a continuing basis. And, blending in, was stale incense, old boiled cabbage and Mr. Garcia rank body odor . . . all in all, a perfumer's nightmare. Of course, being four years of age, I had no preconceived notions towards any of this, but was amazingly adept at separating and identifying the various sources.

His bedroom connected to my grandmother's by a bathroom in the middle, and lockable doors on each side. The skeleton key was kept in her top right bureau drawer. I never gave it much attention until one afternoon’s nap. Napping for me was a detested time, for I was forced to sleep in Grandma's large brass bed, alone.

Her bedroom walls were papered with huge roses, which, if I stared at them long enough, transformed into furious, devouring beasts, before my very eyes. Desperate for any escape, I'd stare straight above me, only to fixate my eyes on a hanging bust of a man whose hair was long and stringy. Upon his head lay a crown of thorns. His eyes were rolled upward in their sockets and blood ran down his face. I knew that he was hurt. I also knew Grandma knelt and talked to him every night, but I preferred hiding under the blankets so he, too, like the monster on the wall paper, would not get me. Suffocation seemed a much safer route than crying out in fear, and igniting the anger of my grandmother.

There was no hope of escaping the horrid flowers or the bleeding man, save one . . . Mr. Garcia and his bathroom. One day during my nap of horrors, I heard his neurotic rustling and decided to get a look at him. I quietly climbed down from the giant bed and tiptoed over to the keyhole. Peering through, I saw Mr. Garcia standing with his pants down, peeing into the toilet. What is that thing he's holding? Mesmerized, I watched as he wadded up an ample amount of toilet paper and dabbed at this thing repeatedly. What is he doing? Then, his head rolled back, and he would begin to breath heavily. After a bit, he came out of this trance, and plopped the wad of toilet paper into the toilet, flushing it away. Curious. Very curious.

Every day after that, I’d climb down from my Grandmother’s bed and watch Mr. Garcia, closely. He held a ritual of popping his pimples, applying creams, and then he’s fiddle with his thing. I never missed a day. After a month or so, my Grandmother became a little puzzled at how anxious I was to take my nap. However, certain that it was due to her splendid disciplinary tactics, she took respite in this one less agitation in her life.

Mr. Garcia began spending longer periods at the toilet. I felt that he had learned of my presence at the keyhole, for he became quite the contortionist. He would bend over as near as possible to his part that peed, and then reach out his tongue until one day, he was able to lick himself there. Synchronizing his movements, he dabbed harshly with the toilet paper wad, until he went into his trance. In and out his tongue would go, faster and faster. It was quite amusing to watch, until one day, my grandmother came in and caught me spying.

Everything was ruined. Not only was I given a sound licking, I was also, banned from her bed. The lack of bed didn’t bother me much, but . . . well, of course, none of the punishment lasted very long, for there was no where else to put me. However, put in to action was a vigorous nap patrol. It took a long time to undo the damage, but eventually, I could watch Mr. Garcia’s antics again, which was even more fun, because of the stricter forbidden aspects, applied. As the days wore on, life got lonely at the top. So, I decided to share my delicious secret with my sister, Loni and my cousin. Before long, there wasn't a man left in the house who didn’t fall prey to the keyhole. . . not even my father. I learned a great deal and I learned that each man was different in their own way. Some men flicked, some wiped, but no one could rival the antics of Grandma’s border, the pious Mr. Garcia. Some years later, looking back, during my Catholic Catechism studies, I wondered how it was, that I felt terrified of roses on a wall and Christ; and thus, found solace in the debauch actions of a depraved man.

Exits do become entrances. It was time to say goodbye to the house of my Grandmother's for we were to move into a large white Colonial home owned by Uncle Louie. I was about to enter the age of reason.



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Paula
Paula Servetti

Thank-you, Son, this is stuff you don't know much about. So it is good that you read this, just to help you know your family who has passed on, a little better, and maybe me.

Posted by Paula on Sunday, October 25, 2009 - 7:56 PM
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Patty Servetti
Patty Servetti Stewart

I was gyppeed because I never got to peek through the keyhole. We moved from grandma's house when I was 2 1/2, before Mr. Garcia moved in. I guess that explains why I wasn't allowed to use the big bathroom when we visited. I had to use the small one in the back of the house. As usual you have done I great job writting. I really enjoy reading your stories, as they bring back many fond memories.
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Paula
Paula Servetti

Patti, Really? I thought you did. Loni I were reminiscing, just this morning, as she had read this. She said. "I remember us sitting on the bed for the longest time, just waiting for him to come out. Sooo funny! and she also brought up how we impatiently waited for Grandma to take us to the corner store to get those special sugar cookies. I remember that little store as well, as if I had been there today. I loved it so much. Thanks dear cousin, for the comment and compliment. It helps me know that I am honoring the family. xo

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Jennie

Keep it up girl...you have amazing descriptive powers..I have been writing , but need to spice mine up after reading what you write
Jenn
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A Hollywood Start /Ch. 2 /pt.6/ Grandma


Paula


After a few good years in Chicago, my father lost his job. My mother wasn't too upset about it since she was homesick and fed up with the heinous weather. My parents decided to move back to California. I had no idea what that all meant. My only goal was to sneak into their bedroom while they were busy packing boxes. For there, in all it’s red, and silver splendor stood the forbidden statue of Jesus, atop their tall mahogany dresser. All I ever wanted was, to hold it. Just once!

It would be easy, I would just quietly pull out the emptied drawers slightly and climb them to the top. It was scary endeavor, but I managed to reach the final forth drawer. Holding on to the top ledge with my left hand, the statue was now less than a few feet from my grasp. Anxiously, I reached out my arm in hot pursuit. To my extreme horror, the monstrous chest began tipping over and I could do nothing more than retreat my arm and hold on to the ledge for dear life. As if this wasn’t bad enough, my unbelieving eyes fixed upon the heavy icon, as it slid nearer and near toward me. With a life of its own, it smacked hard into my face and the impact hurt so badly that I screamed out like a banshee. Simultaneously, the statue bounced off, crashed onto floor, and the heavy dresser slap-strapped me to the ground. By this point my parents had run into the room and lifted the chest off of me. I was shaking, I was so distraught. But, worse was yet to come, as I was whipped around to suffer my mother's wrath. Christ had begun entering my life in strange ways.

We took the train back to California and moved into the Silver Lake home of my Grandmother, Catrina Servetti. At this point, she was in her late seventies and still going strong, keeping to her daily routine. Early every morning, my younger sisters and I sat on the floor in the living room waiting for Grandma's ample body to emerge from her bedroom. Dressed in a cotton shirtwaist, that hung loosely over her immense breasts, opaque stockings and chunky black shoes, she'd settle into her oversized rocking chair. We'd watch, mesmerized, as she brushed her barely grey hair into two thick braids, and secure them across her head with hairpins. Leaning forward, her wrinkles would hint at a smile of amusement as she reached out to pinch our bums. When she rose, wrestling off her creaking chair, we'd follow her eagerly into the warm kitchen; there she would boil coffee grains in a white enamel pot. Then, after straining the brew, she'd add sugar and scalding milk. She poured the mixture into thick crockery bowls, and butter hunks of crusty bread, then plunk them down on her old table. Greedily we’d dip the bread into the coffee, and stuff our mouths, until we could eat no more.

After breakfast, we would snuggle into the lumpy living room sofa and watch television while Grandma knitted argyle socks for my father and Uncle Albert. A blend of Clorox, musty furniture cushions and coffee formed a scent that was as splendid as the morning. Sheriff John, Crusader Rabbit, The Lone Ranger, Sky King and Engineer Bill were our companions every day until lunch time. Grandma’s house was an honorable place to be. She was gruff, but she loved us. Come lunch time, she would give us bologna sandwiches with white Weber’s bread and then it was time for our naps. She'd wake us just as it was time to watch Queen for a Day. I cannot remember precisely, when my black and white world turned to color ~ some days, I wish it never had.

Later, we would play in the back "screened porch" while Grandma loaded clothes in her old ringer washer, and started preparing the food for Sunday's meal. We would play under the wooden table, snatching up the pieces of fallen pasta dough, to mold toys. Ultimately, we'd grow greedy and argue over who got the larger pieces, until Grandma got the broom after us, yelling, "Carumba muchachas, cabeza traviezo!"

We hadn't a clue about what she was saying, but we'd scuttle away fast and stay silent. Every day of the week, Grandma would knead flour and slice dough. She'd simmer savory tomato sauces and meats for hours until she felt assured there was enough for her entire Sunday clan. Our aunts, uncles, cousins and friends on the Servetti side would gather in their church attire to share the Holy Day. The men would put a wooden plank over the dining table to elongate it and then, carry in the extra chairs from the garage. The women draped sheets of white cotton over the planks, set the table and ordered children and men to sit. After this came enormous platters of spaghetti, ravioli, and plump gnocchi. Sauce from the freshest of fruits and pungent basil, was set near the veal cutlets, which was the favorite among the men. And naturally, fresh grated Parmesan cheese, a huge salad and plenty of homemade Italian bread. “L’appetito vien mangiando!” Turns were taken at saying grace, and then, the clinking of plates, silver ware, and the passing of food. Suddenly, silence but for the slurping, and someone would ultimately yell, "Hey, pass the butter!" or, "Save room for the zabaglione!" When stomachs filled up to capacity, everyone would groan or rub their stomachs and the chatter would begin.
wolfwitch
Wolf Witch

WOW, beaten up by Jesus at such a young age!

Posted by wolfwitch on Tuesday, October 20, 2009 - 12:36 PM
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Mad Butterfly
Divine Madness

...then the spumoni ice-cream and angel food cake, right? yaaaaah!!

i've been to, at least, a few of the identical, Sunday italian feeding experiences, that you so aptly describe, believe it or not, Paula...was just speaking to Gary last night about it, and how it seemed the old generation's aim was to kill you with culinary delight....what were they like!!

...too much of a good thing, can be too much, sometimes; but ooohhhwee, you shall never forget it for as long as you live!
This old italian man I knew, more recently, Pasquali Meile, (great italian name, huh!)made me a homemade pizza, ladled with love, truly; I watched him make it, and he put everything he learned in his 87 years, on 2 continents, into it! I shared it with my daughter, when I got home, and after she had a few pieces, she said it seemed as tho her taste buds died and went to heaven!
My sister married a full-blooded Italian, that's how it happen that I stumbled into it, purely by accident, I assure you...

I don't know exactly what to say about the Jesus statue, smacking you right in the face like that; i guess it's for the best tho, it might bring bad karma--to both of us, shhhh!

x;D

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Paula
Paula Servetti

Ya my family was from the North of Italy, so we never had pizza. My grand mother cooked with more of a Mediterranean bend. but it's all in La Familia. Very close, tight, and crazy.

Posted by Paula on Sunday, October 25, 2009 - 8:02 PM
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Paula
Paula Servetti

Oh and if you noticed, I got smacked a lot, if it wasn't one way it was another. That's how I was brought up. . . did something wrong . . . smack!

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Paula
Paula Servetti

Thank-you Byron, for your support. It means the world to me.

Posted by Paula on Sunday, October 25, 2009 - 7:58 PM
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